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How to live mindfully.

Updated: Apr 5

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In today's crazy busy world, it's becoming increasingly important to find ways to stay grounded and balanced. One really powerful method is mindfulness.

Mindfulness is the art of being fully present in the moment, without judgment. It allows us to develop a deep sense of awareness, which then helps us to know and understand ourselves better and changes our approach and interactions with the world around us. So I want to explore with you, some free, easy to apply techniques and tips on how to live mindfully and incorporate it into our daily lives. We don't need any special equipment and they can all be done pretty much anywhere.

How to live mindfully.

1. Start with the Breath: One of the simplest and most effective ways to practice mindfulness is by focusing on the breath. Just taking a few moments every day to sit somewhere quiet and bring your attention to your breath. Now we're not trying to change it or control it, we just want to become aware of it's gentle rhythm. Notice how it feels when the breath enters and leaves the body. We are aiming to be observing without judgment, simply allowing thoughts to come and go. I feel more relaxed just writing this. Anyway, this practice helps to ground us in the present moment and calm the mind.

2. Use Body Scanning: Body scanning is a technique that involves deliberately bringing our attention to different parts of the body. We begin by focusing on our toes and gradually working our way up our body to the top of your head. Become aware of any sensations, tensions, or areas of relaxation. Simply observe and accept what you find, without trying to change anything. This practice makes us body aware, and helps us to find acceptance and facilitates a sense of overall well-being.

3. Practice Mindful Eating: Because life is so busy for a lot of us, we often rush through meals without savouring the experience. In fact I would imagine that we've all been guilty at some point of literally shovelling it in while we are doing something else. Especially if it's snacks. Hands up those who can eat a whole packet of something while their watching tv or working on the computer and not even notice they're doing it or really taste and appreciate it. Yep, me too. Mindful eating involves bringing full attention to the act of eating and engaging all the senses. So we slow right down and savour each bite, noticing the flavours, textures, and the smells. Being fully present with our food, without distractions. No tv, no screen of any kind, no talking either to do this effectively and obviously you wouldn't necessarily do this at every meal but it does make us more aware of the process of nurturing and refuelling our body so that when we are on our own, we can fully engage and when we are with others, we can make a effort to pay more attention to our meal.This practice not only enhances our enjoyment of our meals but also promotes a healthier relationship with food.

4. Cultivate Gratitude: This is one of my favourites because it's just so incredibly powerful. Not just for becoming more mindful but also because it has the power to rewrite our brain and is the jackpot emotion in improving wellbeing. all you have to do is take a few moments each day to reflect or list a few things you are grateful for. It could be as simple as the warmth of the sun on your skin or having running water. By shifting our focus to the positive things in our lives, we train our minds to be more present and appreciative of the present moment ad we raise our vibration which keeps us healthier and happy which in turn hep us to self regulate more effectively.

5. Integrate Mindfulness into Daily Activities: So while it's really good to have a dedicated mindfulness practice of some kind, it's just as important to incorporate mindfulness into our everyday activities for maximum benefit and pretty much anything that we do can be done mindfully. It just means paying attention.Whether it's brushing our teeth, taking a shower, or walking to work, give it your full attention. Notice the sensations, smells, and sounds associated with whatever activity you're doing. Through doing this, we train our brain to stay focused, we get more of an experience of everything that we do, we become less stressed and overwhelmed because it's impossible to feel that way when you are in the present moment.All of which results in a calmer, more peaceful life and each moment is viewed with clarity. It's a beautiful and enriching way to journey through life.

Conclusion: Practicing mindfulness is a journey that requires patience, commitment, and self-compassion.Self compassion because it's a practice, that means we won't be amazing at it straight away but if we keep at it, it becomes easier and slides gracefully into our everyday lives.

Be kind to your self, be patient and be aware that you are on an empowering journey. And by incorporating these techniques into our daily lives, we can gradually cultivate a greater sense of self-awareness and inner peace which helps us to see things as they are, with clarity and allow a solution to present itself, freeing us from stress, anxiety and angst. So, take a moment to pause, breathe, and embrace the joy of the present moment. Remember, mindfulness is not about perfection; it's about the intention to be fully present and engaged in each moment of our lives.


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